In “Sickness and in Health”

I feel very grateful right now to have gotten over a really bad cold. When you are sick and not in the best of moods it is then you can really see what your partner is made of. Jenn despite having to work all day really came through and took care of me. Which got me thinking do I really need a piece of paper stating that we are married ? The answer is no. While I wouldn’t mind be married for the some financial reasons, and to have Jenn put me on her medical insurance, or just to have the right to get married like everyone else. After everything the good the bad and the ugly that peice of paper would not change anything within us.  The way Jenn took care of me and the way I see everyday that she loves me makes me realize that we can have our own standards of marriage. And it is okay.  In other news I am still kicking butt with knitting, our foster child is doing well, I cut back my hours again at work, I am only working 20 hours and Jenn and I really feel good about life and everything that is going on. This past weekend with being snow bound, Jenn and I slowed down and enjoyed eachother and Matao. What a Wonderful life. Peace and love to all who enter here